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KOM2002 (question)  Love issues: Can I trust this guy or not?

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reply ** Re: Love issues: Can I trust this guy or not? , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 23 Mar 2006 23:41
question Love issues: Can I trust this guy or not? , ****** , 23 Mar 2006 19:13
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Love issues: Can I trust this guy or not?
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Date: Thu, 23 Mar 2006 19:13:14 +0100
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i am with a guy that i am not sure i can trust. we have been together for almost a year and will be taking a romantic trip together next week. i have a very painful relationship in my past that i am not sure i can get past. i have been trying to for over 2 years, yet still think about my ex every day. the guy i am with now is a total opposite of me. i laugh alot with him and like how i feel when i am with him (sometimes). things have changed recently with us. i know all relationships go thru ups and downs, i'm just not sure about him anymore. i worry that my comcerns with him may be because of my last relationship. yet we are so different, i worry that it is my gut telling me to take a reality check. i also have a close friend that has recently gone thru a divorce - it brings back alot of memories for me and i really sympathize with him. we were once interested in each other romantically, it just never had a chance to happen. i have heard rumors that he is interested still, but i don't want to be the "rebound" girl. i wonder if i am just confused about my current relationship b/c of all the things happening just now. i feel that i love my boyfriend - i worry that i am not "in" love with him. i know from experience that there is a huge difference in the two. i just spoke with him and he informed me he and a friend will be opening a bar in the next year, and i don't know that i trust him to be around young, scantily clad girls and not cross the line. we are both in our late 20's and he is a year younger than me. i have always dated older men, with the exception of my ex-husband. i just don't tend to have good outcomes with younger men... i want to know if i am generalizing relationships b/c of my past or creating reasons not to be with him b/c of things that don't have to do with him? please help...
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** Re: Love issues: Can I trust this guy or not? (Reply to: 65824 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Thu, 23 Mar 2006 23:41:33 +0100
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His being a year younger than you does not mean anything. But take your time before you make ur your mind whether he is the right guy for you or not.

This article in Psychology today might help you.




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