We have been friends for 7 years. I don't like her much, I think she is arrogent and tries to prove herself too much. I makes me uncomfortable and I can't be bothered with it. She has expliained why she does this, due to 'her childhood and lack of recognition'. I find her too much of a personal challenge. I may also be jealous of her. I had a problem with her competitivness and arrogence and she proceeded to tell me a few things about me she didn't like, which were all true. She continued by saying that she appreciates our friendship and hopes we can work it out and except eachother 'unconditionally'. Problem is I don't want to work out our problems and I am not sure why, or if this is ok. Am I afraid of something or is it ok to simply not like people and not want them in your life? How do you know if this is my own issue of not being accepting enough? is it ok to not be accepting? When is this right or wrong?