My finacee and i have been sexually active for a little over four years now. Just last summer she explained to me that i have never been able to give her an orgasm and the sexual satisfaction that she deserves. She does masturbate and can (by the way she describes) orgasm that way. This makes me feel less like a man and makes me more obsessive to want to try more things. We have tried oral sex, vibrators, dildos, etc but nothing seems to work. I also ejaculate a little too early and do not give her a chance to "warm up". She says that she is not always a sexual person, but the thought of me not being able to give her sexual satisfaction destroys my self-esteem. I want to make her orgasm sooooo bad, but i do not know what else to do or try. I have asked her to show me her technique, which she kind of did, but it is a little complex for me to do. It is her own way of doing it. I asked her to physically show me herself, but she is not comfortable doing that, and i have to respect that. Can you please help me help her?? Any suggestions on what really works to make a woman orgasm!?!? Thank you.
Fondle her clitoris before intercourse until she gets an orgasm. You need to be patient. It might take 20 minutes or more. She has to be in the right mood and think of arousing things meanwhile. Use lubrication gel from the pharmacy if she is dry.