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reply Re: pushing people away , ****** , 01 Mar 2006 08:06
reply Re: Pushing people away , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 23 Feb 2006 22:58
reply Re: Pushing people away , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 23 Feb 2006 03:55
question Pushing people away , ****** , 22 Feb 2006 23:20
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Pushing people away
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Date: Wed, 22 Feb 2006 23:20:41 +0100
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I keep pushing people away and its making me sad. Im an introvert and id rather stay home than go out, thats also part of the problem - why I cant get close to people.
I talk well to anyone when I meet them for the first time and Im very open minded, but even if I get off to a good start, I just can't seem to keep up a friendship and get close to anyone. I know subconsiously Im afraid of getting hurt, but I cant seem to be able to do anything about it. please help. xxx
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Re: Pushing people away (Reply to: 62919 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Thu, 23 Feb 2006 03:55:59 +0100
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Would it be possible for you to join a psychotherapy group to get help with your problems?



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Re: Pushing people away (Reply to: 62942 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Thu, 23 Feb 2006 22:58:48 +0100
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What kind of solution would be acceptable for you.



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Re: pushing people away (Reply to: 62919 from ****** )
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Date: Wed, 1 Mar 2006 08:06:11 +0100
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Letter from a reader: luk.. i hav also been facing a very similar problem from a long time and what i have been able to make out is that till the time we don't fight against the fear we have inside us i.e. the fear to get hurt.. it's too hard for us to proceed further with interactions. You should know that all the people out there also carry out similar insecurities and problems. All you have to do is suppress that fear.. listen to your mind.. at most what is going to happen is that you might get a bit hurt.. but it'll then help you find out where you went wrong and you can improve it over the next time... and also remember that there have always been people out there who care about you n all.. and you mite now know about them.. so jes be strong and pull ya strings up!!!


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