i'm so jealous and obessive about my girlfreinds past that it hurts our relationship so much
i wish i knew how to not dwell on it, i love her, but i put so much weight on her past that it pulls me away from her
how can i stop this??
Gestalt Therapy can sometimes be very successful in treating obsessive jealousy. SSRI-medicine is another option.
Never ask about your girlfriends past.