My wife seems to not be able to show any affection during our 17 yr marraige other then our sex life, yet every time she drinks and gets drunk she she finds (usually a friend of mine to be very affectionate to (by hugging and cheek kissing i mean not actual sex). She honestly feels its ok and just beacuse she is drunk but iI get jealous and feel like it is some other emotional problem. Can You please help.