Hello there,
I need help in solving a problem that affects my whole family(any help would be apreciated).This is how it sounds:
My father is now 52 years old. 3 years ago, on a business trip out of the country, he experimented homosexual contact with another man. He was watching gay porn several years before that. After that, he engaged in a relationship with a man somewere in the hometown. My mother found out from his behavior and my father admited and promissed to change. My mother was understanding and waited.Father did not change(1 year), so mother made a scene. My father was angry and from next day had many(hundreds) of homosexual relations with a different man all the time. His needs went up to 1 time at 2 days. After a year he stoped that and engaged in a single relation with a man for discretion purposes. Only now i could talk to him. He sais he has a split personality, that he regrets doing that, and that when the needs are high he cannot control them. He still loves my mother and does not want to hurt her anymore. He tried remaking their sexual life but failed several times and now they think there is no way back there.
Please help somehow with some advices. I personally think it's a hypersexuality combined with split personality and homosexuality :( . The good think is that when he's clearminded he is very cooperative and he wants to change.