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reply Re: Other people accepting my success! , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 24 Nov 2005 18:29
plain Other people accepting my success! , ****** , 24 Nov 2005 13:42
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Other people accepting my success!
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Date: Thu, 24 Nov 2005 13:42:07 +0100
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Please help me as i am in serious problem. I am 24 and my father and my elder brother are not able to digest my success. They can't see me becoming more successful then them and get awed by even small achievements of mine. Also becoz they see me to be becoming successful, they want to have their control of me as if i am an object of their possession. My father makes a huge publicity in his society about my success and start promising others that i will solve their worries and help everyone becoz i am becoming successful. He has always used me as an object of his social gratification, never cared about my own feelings or what i wanted in life for myself. He has a huge social ego and plays mind games to make me do what he wishes me to. I feel weak against his tactics and have fled from my home. But every now and then, i have to take help from my family as i am just 24 and finding it difficult to live on my own. My father and brother would use money as a means of controlling me and their efforts never reduce. Please help, i have no one whom i can rely on completely in this world.

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Re: Other people accepting my success! (Reply to: 56707 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Thu, 24 Nov 2005 18:29:18 +0100
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It is natural for a young person to become more independent every year. Get emotional support from friends and try to find a job, where you can make the money you need.




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