ashok

dear friend
I do belong to a middle class family.MY father is working in soudiarabia and he is not at all cared for our family.He spend about 20 years over there and frequently used to visit ince in 4 years.My mother is very dipressed and added to that my sister behave rudely with her since the childhood .they wont care for the respect.The just go on behaving rudely with me and my mom.I dont know the reason for that .Why they are behaving like that .even they are not at all intrested in studyies .At least they were not able to talk the normal language. they almost behave like mentally retired people.But at the same time they behave nicely with the other relatives who are selfish persons who behave them as slaves .I tried to know the reason for that but it is of no use.Some times i brought some gifts for them .At that momemt the has been nice to me for some hours but after that they behaved in the same way.I am not able to do understand anything.I am very much concerned about them.they are growing up they are about 19 years even they wont have the sence how to behave between family .I am very much worried about them .my age is about 26. so kindly advice me what should i must do as a good brother.
yours friendly
ashok

As your family is so nasty to you, I think you should avoid them. They only make you unhappy. Spend time with your friend instead. Hopefully your family will miss you and work hard to get you back.