I have met a new guy that is 40+ Iam 37 and love having sex. I think he has a problem I am very comfortable around him BUT I dont know what i should do about him he never gets Hard thats even with given him oral and even trying to penitate me. I dont know if I am doing something wrong or if there is some i could do to help him? he is diabetic for 2 yrs now but he tells me that his ex and him had sex up until 8 mos ago. how should i talk to him about this and not make him feel bad for the problems that lay ahead