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Date: Tue, 11 Oct 2005 13:06:02 +0200
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Hi
My name is Amr im 24 years old i graduated a year and a half ago. I live in Cairo, Egypt and i work in a international well known travel agency. I have a Fiancé and i love her so so so much she is the best thing in my life, we have been on bad terms the couple of months. She says that i do everthing to make her happy and i never say no to her about anything and she dosent like that. I dont know what to do because everytime i see her unhappy i try to do anything to make her cheer up and when she dosent i feel bad and we fight about it. the second problem is i always want her with me i dont want to leave her i want to sepend all of time with her and when she goes out with her friends i feel bad also. I dont know what to do and this is affecting my work because i hate my work i want to leave it but when i am on good terms with her i feel fine and i go to work with no problem but when we fight i feel so bad and that i dont want to go to work again and find another job. please help me
You have to let your fiancé go out with her friends when she wants to, otherwise she will feel as if she was in prison. Nobody wants to stay with her prison guard. Fighting is not a good way of cooperating. Rather listen to your fiancé and find out what she needs from you to be happy, if you want her to stay with you. You cannot expect anybody to be with you all the time. Be together when both of you want to but accept that she also has her own interests.
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