Help

Hello,

My boyfriend and I were just at my parents recently for a routine visit (They live in another state.). I went on my parents computer to check my e-mail, and I noticed a login name previously view on the computer of marriedmann49. I found this quite odd but knew right away that it couldn't have been anyone else's e-mail address other than my father's who is now 51. I have noticed in the past that my father goes to chat rooms, but since my mother isn't very computer savvy, I don't think she ever realized. I had this strange suspision that he was doing some thing wrong just based on the login alone. I shouldn't have mettled, but I did and was able to guess his password. The messages that I saw inside were shocking. All of them were pornographic or sexual in nature, but none of them involved my father responding. I figured that since he was in chat rooms and created a profile, people could send him whatever they wanted to. I let it go for the rest of the weekend and pushed aside the thought that my father was cheating on my mother, but yesterday I had this erie feeling that there was something more. I needed to know. I looked further into the messages and found one in particular that was disturbing. It was a conversation between my father and another man. My dad's exact words were, "my wife doesn't know I'm bi." They discussed what the liked sexually, their schedules, and when they could possible meet. This is where I'm stuck. I don't have any CONCRETE proof that my father ever has done anything with anyone else, and I can't confront my father due to the fact that the only reason I know was because I was snooping. I continue to tell myself that it is none of my business, and I shouldn't be living my life through my parents. I'm a grown woman and have my own problems to deal with. What should I do?

Sincerely,
Stacey

p.s. If you could get back to me as soon as possible, I would greatly appreciate it.