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reply Re: forgetting him , ****** , 03 Sep 2005 19:06
reply Re: forgetting him , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 25 Aug 2005 11:09
sad forgetting him , ****** , 23 Aug 2005 16:47
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forgetting him
From: ******
Date: Tue, 23 Aug 2005 16:47:21 +0200
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hi. my ex and i have been broken up for almost a year now but have still managed to see each other once to twice a week. he made it pretty clear that nothing would happen withbus again. but still always reassures himself that im only his that he's wiht knowone else, and also obsesses that he doesn't want me to involve myself with other guys. i don't trust him as he doesn' t trust me, i've told him several times that i don't want to b in this situation anymore. he gets very upset, says really harsh things to me but in a week to weeks he crawls back apologizing, and repeatidly tells me he misses me and can't stay without me. I've been through this 60 times in the past 2 years. i want him out but can't seem to let him go at the same time. How do i forget him???
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Re: forgetting him (Reply to: 51112 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Thu, 25 Aug 2005 11:09:17 +0200
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This man wants to feel free although he has a relation. After being with a woman men want to be alone. But after being alone for a while, they long for the woman and will do everything for her. You do not have to forget him. You can go on like this for the rest of your life, if you want to.



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Re: forgetting him (Reply to: 51112 from ****** )
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Date: Sat, 3 Sep 2005 19:06:03 +0200
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hey, i m in the same situation with my bf!!! you have to try gaining trust again. maybe he really doesn't have anyone else, but just wants to play single coz of some of his complexes. if u really wanted to leave him you would have done it already, so it means you too are pretty much involved into this. so you only have 2 ways, either closing the door behind him and never let him in you life again ever, or working on rebuilding your relationship and gaining trust back.

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