I am 26 and I have never masturbated before because it makes me feel uncomfortable, but now I am concerned because I also have never had an orgasim. I have read that some women just can not have orgasims. I've also read that most women can only orgasim by masturbating. Do I have to masturbate to find out if I can have an orgasim at all? What other things can I do to try and have an orgasim?