Dumped by the one whom means the world to me

Hi,

Can u pls help me ?

I am a 27 years old male from inida now working in Qatar, I have been in love with a girl for like five years.

We came to Qatar because v had problems back home with my family. Infact v have even adoptaded a small baby even though v r not married.

I always thought that she also loved me as much as i..
but after coming here to qatar .. in a few months time i saw here getting attracted to my best friend..

This really hurt me .. so iconfrunted her on this and she said there was nothing ... i also askmy friend who aslo said that there was nothing..

but with in a week after this she broke up with me .. giving me trival reasons ..

just few week latter i find the two of the in a relationship... I wind it very difficult.. and since v all work at the same place it makes life more difficult ..

I have been depressed, and falling sick very offen .. and not able to manage my emotions...

I have tried speaking to her .. but she says .. that there is nothing between us.

I have decided to go back to India ..

Pls help me

rgds
ashwin

What a terrible situation you are in. I agree with you that the best thing to do is going back to India and leave this woman behind you.

Why do you want to go to India? just because a woman dumped you? Bad things happen to good people and it happens many times. Probably she did not really love you from the start. If it is to your advantage, financially or career wise, then stay in Qatar, with time you will forget her and you may also meet some one else. Also consider what will you lose if you go back to India? Things which may look terribel now, will ease off with time and may be in the future, you will say what a fool was I to think like this. Wounds heal with time Have the strength and do not change a good career just because a woman dumped you.