I am a pastor who has a lady in my congregation who has a lot of symptoms of sexual abuse as a child. After a long period of time she states that she can never remember being abused by a family member etc. but she does recall clearly that when she was in the 2nd grade that there were many times that older boys would take her to a private place and there they would kiss and touch each other inappropriately. She also has from time to time a compulsion to do something that would be very dangerous. What advice can you afford me to help this lady. She seems to always be living in fear, lack of trust, she always seems to block anything good that happens to her by attempting to make herself unworthy of the blessing, etc. She is a widow of 3 years. She married a much older man 35 years her senior. They were married for 18 years and have two children. Any help would be appreciated