adhd in toddlers

I have a very hyper 2.5 year old as all parents of toddler do I am sure but I am beginning to wonder if something other than the teriible twos is going on. She has never slept well and is still waking in the middle of the night and yes she is nin her own bed. When she wakes she will throw a major temper tantrum at times. She does attend a daycare/preschool facility and her teachers have told me her biggest problem is not listening. When I tell her no or not to do something she will look right at me so I know she hears me and the turn around and do the thing I told her not to. I know some of this is testing the limits of how far she can go but she does this over and over when she know she is not supposed to. She is extremely difficult to calm down especially if she is in a tantrum. She is a dare devil. Always climbing, swinging, running, jumping. She is a chatter box and is very manipulative. She is a wonderful, sweet, charming , loving, and intelligent little girl but I need to know if she needs help that her mommy can't give. Also, both her father and I have adhd. So, does this sound like adhd or is she just a normal toddler?

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