I have been with my fiance' for about a year now. We have lived and worked together for about the same. We have a blended family, he has 3 children between 8 and 13 yrs old, and I have a five yr old that lives with us and a two year old that lives with my ex husband. Me and my fiance are together ALL THE TIME! And that was never a problem until recently. We used to have amazing communication skills. but lately we cannot talk about anything without butting heads. We both have issues with trust, after he cheated on me about 6 months ago with his ex girlfriend. I am not sure what to do. I really care very deeply for him, and when we aren't fighting we are GREAT together, but lately it seems all we do is fight and recently it has even gotten a bit physical. We both want to stop this nonsense before it gets out of hand. But we want to do it together. If we both want that why is it so hard to stop it from happening? Is there hope for us?