My mom-in-law to be is an ass. She has constantly sent acid remarks my way coated with sugar. Her son lets it fly over his head.
Behind his back she tells me he says things that are not true (I confront him later). She tells him she adores me. He believes her and thinks I am overly sensitive. She did this to the other two sisters-in-law before they were married. She constantly talks about his old girlfriends, etc.
Now at family functions she makes me the butt end of rude jokes. She talks about me behind my back to other family members in insulting ways which I find out about. My boyfriend thinks this is all a misunderstanding because she continues to tell him how adorable I am.
She plans to move into a place next door to his house soon and is helping to remodel his home for him.
I don't want her to put a wedge in our relationship. What should I do to handle this? To do nothing is humiliating and I don't play the victim very well.
Your bad relation with your mother-in-law will ruin your life, unless you move to another town with your boyfriend. If you cannot make you boyfriend take your side and move away from his mother, you have better find another boyfriend with a nice mother who appreciates you.