Hi, I have a 6 and half year old son. Three months back one incident has changed his life derastically. He was a active boy wants to play all the time and he was performing well in the school too. After school hours he used to play out side the home a lot. He used to play with his bicycle and roam arround home in 300-400 mtrs.
One evening arround 8am while he was comming back to home from a near grocery store. A man accompanied him towards home. That man came to our building walking alongwith the my kid. Man joined my kid in lift too. We are living at 4th floor. During this time in which lift was raising up to 4th floor. That man asked son to drop his pant. My kid scarred and refued to do so. Then that man droped his pant and showd his piens to my kid. Luckly lift reached to 4th level and my kid came out and rushed to appartment. That man went down and disapeared.
Kid was so scared, he is so incent and never faced such incident in life. Even he never saw a picture of nude man in his life. But this time some one has asked him to remove pant and showd nude to him.
kid only told me about this situation after 40 minutes of incedent. I immidiatly went down to find that person but could not. Eventually I made and police complaint too.
Now three months has been passed. Kid is suffering from fear to go out of home alone. He is refusing to go in to lift alone. After school hrs he is only staying at home and watching tv. No physical acivity. If I am pushing hism to go down and play, he refuses and starts arguing or crying. I asked police department about this problem. They said tell him that we have captured that man. I did so. But kid is asking me to take him to police station and show that man. He is also saying that he will not go out of home intill all bad men are arrested by the police.
Now I recieved his complaint from school, that he is not doing well in school. He started wrting so slow and during writing he starts thinking. Some time dreaming in day.
I dono how to help him to regain his confident. So he can activly spend his life.