We are living together with my boyfriend for a year now. He has a 4yo daughter from past relationship. She is living with mum and my boyfriend takes her only on weekends. She is a nice, healthy, friendly child, but... I hate her soo much, that I started to hate every child around! Im sure now, that Ile never have my own children (Im 28yo). I love my boyfriend very much and he said he'le do anything to help, but its killing our relationship. I thought I can get used to "child idea", but it was a year and its getting even worse: I dont even wanna talk about wedding any more, we have more and more arguments (Im starting them). What to do?
Your boyfriend's daughter needs her father, but it is not good for her to be with someone that hates her. Therefore your boyfriend should not meet you and his daughter at the same time. You do not have to get married and have children, if you do not want to. Maybe you would quarrel less with your boyfriend, if you did not live together and only met when you are longing for each other.
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