I am a 45 female and my 56 husband says that he is no longer attracted to me because I am overweight. I have been sick with hypertension, cancer and now lupus. In the past 4 years, I have put on 50 lbs. We haven't had sex in over 4 months. He does a lot for me and has had affairs in the past and enjoys watching phorn. He is a very fit man who thinks that exercise solves everything. I am 5, 5 and now weight 193. He admits that he is no longer attracted to me and that he is angry (inspite of my illness) that I should lose the weight for him. Does he no longer love me, having an affair or is this normal? I'm hurt and very angry at this point. Please advise as soon as possible.
What they see is very important for most men. Therefore women work hard to stay fit and do their best to look good. Your husband probably cannot help his feelings, it is biological. As he is doing things for you, he still loves you. Why don't you start improving your appearance with all the possibilities that are available today and get your husband back.
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