Me and my girlfreind have been having intercourse for a little less than a year now and we love each other dearly. But the whole time i can not get her to orgasim through penetration alone. I can though, when she is excited enough, make her orgasim through oral stimulation. We have tried many different positions, different techniques and speeds and nothing seems to work to make her orgasm through penetration. She describes it as she feels me inside her but there just is no good feeling about it, it does not hurt or anything, just feels like nothing in essence. I dont know what to do anymore, could it be that i am just really missing something, even though i have read many things and tried many things, or could it be she has orgasming problems? I feel as if i am not doing something right and that i am a disgrace to her because i can not pleasure her as well as she deserves but its almost like anymore that maybe its not my fault. My gf is very frustrated with herself to because she can not orgasm through penetration, she strugles with it daily that she gets so excited but nothing happens. what could be the problem?
Women do not get orgasm during penetration. They get orgasm by having their clitoris stimulated. Be happy that you can give her an orgasm through oral stimulation. The only problem is that you have been disinformed.
Also read our texts about orgasm.