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reply Re: help , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 10 Mar 2005 08:14
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Date: Thu, 10 Mar 2005 05:42:32 +0100
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Hey, I am a boy and 13 years old. I had a crush on this girl and school. Her name is Sivan. When ever I asked her to be my girlfriend, she said no. She also told me a bunch of lies. I also felt as if she was pretending to like me but didn't actually like me. One time I asked her to be my girlfriend, and she said no because she didn't want one at the time because school started, her grades sucked, etc. Later I find out she already has a boyfriend. Then recently I ask her to be my girlfriend (after she broke up with the other guy) and she said no again. Then I hear that she is going out with this other guy named Ben. Instead of just assuming I ask her about it and she doesn't say anything and always walks away. So then I figure why waste my time and energy trying to find out who Ben was so I tried taking her out of my life. It seemed to work for a while. Then she kept asking me why I am mad at her and I told her why. But she didn't want accept the facts, so she asked one of my friends, Daniel. Daniel asked me and I said it was between me and Sivan and it's personal matters, so stay out. But Daniel kept on insisting and one day I let some thing slip. I said I am mad at her because she lied a lot of times and other things. I told him not to tell anyone and he promised. Then he tells one of Sivan's friends who in turn tell's Sivan. Sivan walks up to me and she says "sorry for lying and something else I did but I don't want to say what I did because I am ashamed of it." Then I ask Daniel if he told anyone and he said he told Sivan's friend. I asked Sivan who told her and she said the person who Daniel told. So I am pissed at Daniel and we got into a fight, and I feel as if this is all my fault. My heart is full of pain right now because I lost one of my best friends and also because I fear I might still like Sivan. I really don't know what to do right now. Please help on what I should do.
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From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Thu, 10 Mar 2005 08:14:03 +0100
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Try to make friends with Daniel again. Do not contact Sivan. Let her work hard to get you back.




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