My boyfriend possessed quite a bit of pornographic material before we started dating. He got rid of them after I told him the concept bothered me. I am all for sexual exploration and I am very comfortabe with my body, but I just think sex and fantasies should be between two people. He also used to go to strip clubs, which he no longer does. I appreciate his honesty and compromise, but he also honestly told me one time that he went to strip clubs in his previous relationship without letting his partner know. Does this mean that he may go again and keep it a secret from me? He tells me that he would never lie to me since he knows how important honesty is for me. I wish to believe him but I am also a litte weary. Also, he has said he has fantasized about menage-a-trois as, he claims, all men do. Is this true? Am I just really naive?