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reply Re: i don't want to hurt anyone , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 13 Feb 2005 06:48
sad i don't want to hurt anyone , ****** , 13 Feb 2005 04:56
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i don't want to hurt anyone
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Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2005 04:56:36 +0100
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Because I was abused as a kid I'm worried i might do it to mine if i ever have any, even if i don't mean to. my mum didn't mean to hurt me - she was just messed up and angry and ignorant. i know it's not an excuse, but it does make me worry that i'd have done the same if it was me in her place. maybe i should just resign myself to never having any kids, but that makes me really sad. i would just want to love a kid and not hurt it but i'm not sure i would be able to. It hurts.
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From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2005 06:48:58 +0100
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Yes, it is more common that people who have been abused, do the same to their children. But it is dangerous to believe that you are bound by your experiences as a child. Since you are aware of the problem, it is possible to make up your mind that you will never hurt a child. Psychotherapy can help you learn to overcome your negative childhood experiences and aid you in living your life in a mature way.




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