i never want to have sex with my boyfriend and i feel it's wrong of me not to fulfill his needs. i feel i should do it anyway. sometimes i do and it's so uncomfortable. he never makes me do it,but i can't help but feel that i'm being a bad girlfriend by not doing it. should i do it anyway? whose needs should be met in this situation, his or mine? sometimes i don't want to even see him because i don't want to be put in this situation. he wants to every night and would be more than happy to do it more than once. sometimes i won't want to for weeks at a time i don't even want to do simple sexual things either that are't intercourse. my question really is who's the right one and whose needs shsould be met? thank you for our time.