Hi. My girlfriend is the shy and quiet type and not very sexual. She is 19 and doesnt enjoy sex. I suspect this could be a psychological problem as she can get "wet" down there so physically things seem to be working. I also read somewhere that strong PC muscles for girls is important to vaginal orgasms and that psychological problems can cause tension down there causing the muscles to weaken, if this is true, could you elaborate a bit. Ive asked her to squeeze as hard as she could around me to see if it would feel better and she tried but i could hardly tell a difference so her muscles must be very weak making me think maybe there is a psychological problem. But the thing that intrigues me is that she says her clit has felt good before but only a few times. Can you make sense of that? If a girl cant have a vaginal orgams do they always have potential for their clit to be stimulated? Thanx for the help.
Many women do not get orgasm during intercourse, only when their clitoris is stimulated. If the man uses the woman's body to satisfy himself, she might lose interest in sex. But if her boyfriend or husband cares about satisfying her, her interest in sex will grow.