I can't call a crisis line...and I can't pay for any help...I'm afraid my husband abuses me. He hasn't hit me yet but he does have signs of many abusive problems...I don't know what to do. Plus I have a 3 year old son that i fear may be experiencing physical and other abuse from him. I have no money to pay help...and he'll find out if I call someone...what can I do?
If you want to leave your husband, you need to flee to the police station, church, friends, neighbourghs, relatives, women's shelters or anywhere, where you can get help.
If you want to stay with your husband, you have to be very cunning, to keep him calm and happy, so he vill not abuse you and your child.
Always ask him kindly if you need anything from him and give him a lot of appreciation, if he satisfies your needs.