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Should I forewarn my adult daughter?
Should I forewarn my adult daughter?
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Date: Sun, 3 Oct 2004 03:57:56 +0200
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My daughter lives at a distance from us and we recently my husband and I went for a ten day visit. This young man who is mid thirties seems to be very much afraid of committment and they are living together for four years. She is suspicious of her boyfriend taking money from their joint account why she has that I dont know. They split things down apparently the middle. We went out to restaurants and during this time her boyfriend would be eyeing the waitresses and i found it to be rude and i didnt know how to handle it. At one restaurant two of the waitresses were falling all over themselves to get his attention. I found it degrading to my daughter who is very beautiful inside and out and loves him dearly. His father verbally abuses his wife and is known to cheat on his wife. He has a large ego and Jody seems to have the same ego. I am afraid if i tell her and afraid not to tell her..what is your opinion???
Fråga om din dotter vill tala med dig om sin pojkvän. Om hon säger ja, så fråga om hon vill höra dina tankar om honom. Låt henne bestämma. Tvinga inte på henne något som hon inte orkar ta emot. I bästa fall kan ni ha ett konstruktivt samtal som kan hjälpa henne att göra det bästa av sin situation. Hon kan till exempel behöva skydda sin ekonomi, så att hon inte blir utnyttjad av honom.
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