My wife left me she has most of the traits of narcissism and BPD BELIEVE ME IVE LIVED WITH IT and she has a gambling problem Everything is my fault she doesn't even acknowledge anything and I've been trying to talk to her about it but when I start pointing things out she gets crazy I believe she left me because I know about her actions everything she does reinforces my thoughts please any advice would be welcomed. I love her more than anything and although we probably won't be together I would still like any help in understanding better.