My step sister adopted her sisters then 4 year old son; the mother of the child is mentally unstable herself and my step sister offered to take the child into the home to raise him for her. Over the course of the past 6 years she's had him the child has been diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder, ADHD, mild retardation and mood disorder (non-specific). The childs behavors consist of agression, refusal of following rules, lies, lack of consion, low IQ, special education classes 1/2 day, and 1/2 day in regular education classes, average grades in school, self harms himself because he says it hurts but he just feels like he wants to do it sometimes to feel good (example, twice, he has stuck toys up his anus and once he's stuck a pencil in his penis about 2" deep). Other times he is lovable and enjoyable to be around. The doctors are not giving this family any resources or where to get this child more help! Please help us...maybe you can offer some resources or who they need to see next?