I googled cheating boyfriends and ended up here.We have lived together from the start almost and its been almost two years. Our relationship has been rocky at best for the last year. He has no sex drive due to a severe trauma when he was a teen and gets angry when I ask for it..(nothing like when we first met) He was being especially mean and when I asked if he we cheating he denied it suggested we have an open relationship. For my sake. WTF? thats not something I want.. It really threw me for a loop when I found emails on facebook he left open to a co worker who is married taking about how good her body feels.. How they should run away together.. that I apparently knew about it.. etc.I emailed her and filled her in on that one and warned her to stay away. I called him on it right away. He rushed home from work with promises of counseling and reconnecting. He said that she was getting attention from her husband and she was feeling neglected, he filled that void for her. EXCUSE ME? You mean he treats her like you treat me? two months later he says counseling is to expensive and he has started picking fights with me again today. Right after showering me with gifts on his holidays. He returned to work today. I have copies of the emails and believe her husband should know whats going on.