I love my husband with all of my heart. The last eight years he has been unable to preform or have desire to have any sort of intamancy. He has been to so many doctors and tired all male enhancement medications. He is on deprestion medicine and cholostrol medication. Takes vitimans. He is over weight, but he has no feelings at all.
I can not talk to him about the subject becasue he gets angry and says I throw it in his face. Its all about him, He won't hear me out on how the lack of even being held or kissed brakes my heart. I feel like a am living with a brother not a husband and I am so lost and have no idea of what to do.
I do not belive in divorce, I love him I just want to feel loved back and feelI am special to him or at least notice. He just has no intrest at all and is basicly all about himself and his feelings and what he wants. He is 52, but that is not old Just feel helpless
It is so nice to hear that you love your husband so much that in spite of no aparant response from him, you would not want to part with him.
To tell you the truth, after reading your story, I felt like, in fact, he is the one who requires love and acceptance from you. Perhaps he is so frustrated with the mental stress. This is created by his cholesterol and fat driving him to constant exposure to negative thoughts and driving him into depression.
It is a common side-effect of anti-depressant to change and reduce the sex desire and other medications hardly do a little help. However, you should speak with his doctor on changing the anti-depressant drug that have a lesser side-effect.
Also do take care of our husband by providing all the positive things and what he loves most. I'm sure it is difficult but very soon you'll start getting better results.
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