Me and my girl are in a long (seriously long) distance thing. Hence, a lot of cam sex has happened between us. Recently, she visited me and we were together for almost a week. It was amazing, lots of talking.. romance... SEX! but then reality struck and before we knew it... she had to leave.
After she reached home, we started skyping as always but now something strange has happened. Whenever we initiate sex.. everything is good in the begining but after a few minutes as it starts to get more intense she suddenly withdraws and starts hiding from me and becomes really quite. A couple of times, she started to cry a bit.
We have had a lot of cam-sex but this never happened before. I tried to talk to her about it and she says its an inexplicable feeling. She says she remembers how it felt when I touched her in real and that she misses me a lot. Sometimes, she gets a bit sad because she's not able to give it to me but says that she needs some time and maybe in a few days things will be back to normal. Its already been 12 days since this has been happening. One day she told me "Baby, if u want sex, please go get it. I will hate it but this is unfair for you."
Please help soon! It has started to bother me a lot now. I miss her, she is very far away. I am in a fix.. what is she thinking? how can i make things like before?
Would you be able to visit there?? In distance relationship most of the time
it happens that if you stay away from each other then there are some chances that one will lose emotion, love and feelings because the time when person needs love and his/her love is not there then s/he will feel sad and sometimes it will turn into negativity.
you have to be in contact with her. the real one as skype is not the real so never think chatting on skype and doing cyber sex is enough.
try to arrange some meet on some time like you visit there. then again invite her to visit you or go to travel some other country together. try to talk serious
and trust me all the time you should be careful about her likes and dislikes.
it's very important.
main concern she was feeling upset because or maybe she went there and she liked it and it can make her think that when you will be together again and when you both will be together forever. if she is really nice girl and really in love with you then she will only think that.
2nd the thing if you love her then why you need cyber sex with her?
show some maturity in relationship and discuss with her. if she is sad then ask her, if she is happy then try to make her more happy.
But main thing is, visit there or give a surprise visit. would you be able to visit there??