I'm 7 weeks married my husband lost his job 8 weeks ago. Marriage has been miserable, hes depressed, feels useless as i have to support us and his daughter that lives away. I understand him being a proud man how much it is affecting hime, however i am finding it extremly difficult and damaging his behaviour. He shows me no affection, love or touches me anymore, Yes we've had sex but its just that not loving, no kissing or touching, and i have to ask to be cuddled when things get hard for me to bear. I know hes watching porn, i feel so undesirable and affected by his lack of husbandry, and don#t no what to do. I've discussed my feelings many times and he asks me to be patient with him.
Any suggestions on how to deal with the situation?
I'm keeping him busy paiting then house, got him a small job a few hrs a week, hes out now boxing 2 nights a week and cycling too.
thank you for your time
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