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reply Re: Self esteem, relationship, depression, here goes.... , A5E531682CB800912E9EA91EC06F9D87 , 22 Feb 2012 13:22
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Self esteem, relationship, depression, here goes....
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Date: Thu, 6 Oct 2011 18:12:59 +0200
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So here lately, I've been feeling down and pretty much worthless. But the thing is, I have no reason to feel like this. I have a new boyfriend who is everything that I have ever asked for, but am constantly worrying he is going to break up with me out of the blue, or after an argument, but he's still with me...Which leads me to think, why the hell is he still with me?He is acting different than when we first started dating, not as open about how he feels about me etc, and believe me we are both ones to speak our minds, but I have a problem communicating when it comes to feelings and relationships.I clam up basically and don't say what i'm feeling or how i'm feeling bc i'm afraid of what he would think of me.I think this change in how he is towards me is in a way a reaction to how closed up I am, almost like he just doesn't care anymore, but also being the guy that he is, would have broken up with me if he felt he was wasting his time, that's just how he is. I mean, for someone of 21, I have a pretty damn good job, have had my own place, and experienced a lot(good and bad) of life for someone my age. I'm not one to base my actions on what others might perceive me as, but for people close to me, I'm almost afraid to let them in bc i'm afraid of being hurt and them leaving. And hate the thought of feeling like i'm dependent on others at times to make me feel good. Honestly there's prob more I want to add, but can't think of at this moment, if anyone has any advice or just have something to say, anything helps.
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Re: Self esteem, relationship, depression, here goes.... (Reply to: 165730 from ADSdepressed )
From: A5E531682CB800912E9EA91EC06F9D87
Date: Wed, 22 Feb 2012 13:22:34 +0100
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Hey, like you I have also felt like at any moment everything I have will fall - I'm convinced of that. But what you need to do is accept that you are suffering from paranoia, that you are over-thinking the situation. The moment you do this and focus on the good that you have, the better you will feel in the long-run. You will never fully heal, you will never allow yourself to trust but you listen to me, if you do not trust enough you will torture yourself forever.

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