Both my boyfriend and I have used porn sites both alone and together but I have recently found out that he has been looking at 'shemale' porn when im at work. I noticed it once before several months ago but thought it was a joke now 2 days in a row when im out of the house he is looking at a number of videos. I also feel that out sex life is dying a slow death I make all the first moves he only ever touches me sexually on rare occassions. In all othet areas of our life he is a very loving man he spoils me with gifts and we spend any free time we have together. We live together and between us have 4 children who live with us. I feel very worried and scared is he trying to tell me something? Please help.
The most important thing is a relationship is communication. The best thing you can do is express your thoughts and feeling to your boyfriend and tell him how you fell or ask him what does he want you to do or what he thinks. Once you talk to him and ask him what's going on, you'll feel better. There's nothing worst than insecurity. Just go ahead and talk to him and even if you don't like his answer, you'll at least know what's going on and try to agree on something with him and fix it together.
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