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Problem wiht the past
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Date: Thu, 5 Jan 2012 16:47:42 +0100
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I've never been so in love in my life since now with my fiance. We are totally in love. The only problem is that he has a problem with my past relationships. I only had 1 boyfriend and 1 more sexual partner. I was a virgin till 19. He has a problem with other guys being with me or touching me in any sort of way. He has had a lot more experiences than me. When this matters come to his mind he mistreats me, treat me like I a low class, that Im nasty, says Im stupid for taking bad decisions, even cant touch me. I cant seem to understand why he acts like this. And it hurts me. I cant beleive that the person that tells you everyday he want to spend the rest of his life with you can be the person who has judge you the most and called you more names in your life.
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Re: Problem wiht the past (Reply to: 168418 from B926D88E12014D833D36EBF6A64D0CD7 )
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Date: Fri, 2 Mar 2012 20:27:25 +0100
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Then next time he'll argue about it let him see that! Tell him to put himself in your shoes, he had other girlfriends too and had sex with them too! what's the problem if you did it too? You had a life too before you met him, is not like you were waiting for him to appear in your life so you can give him your virginity. Maybe you thought you were in love with your ex and that's why you did it. but it ended up being just an ex, and now that you have the love of your life next to you all the past relationships shouldn't even matter anymore. If he really LOVES you the way he says, he shouldn't be mistreating you like you say he does. In a relationship, respect and comprehension comes first. Let me tell you something, I've found the love of my life too 6 months ago, but knowing him deeply, he has told me he was an sex addict and he would do anything do have a girl on his bed. He cheated on his ex-girlfriend and because of getting a prostitute he got an STD. That of course shocked me, but because the incredible love that I have for him I've been able to slowly put that aside and on the past. He has changed and had a specialist help him. He loves me SO MUCH that whenever I say no to sex he says ok I love you and doesn't pressure me to have sex all the time like he was used to.
My point is that, love can overcome anything. If there is no love, the past will always matter. If i were you, I do something for him to see that you don't know what you have, until you LOSE IT.

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