So... I'm in love with someone who lives quite far away. I haven't told him that I love him, and know for a fact that he loves me. I believe, though it'd be utterly painful, I should encourage him to move on for the sake of our sanity. He's very sensitive and is very convincing so I rarely bring up the reality of our situation excepting subtle "wish you were here with me" or telling him it's too painful to tell him "I love you". What should I do?