Lack of desire

My wife and I have had a nonexistant sex life ever since the birth of our daughter. We usually had sex 3 times a week, now its lucky if it happens once a month. Before we both had orgasms mutually. Now she just wants me to get it over with as fast as possible. I have tried and tried to rekindle what we used to have. To be honest, I would rather spend time just pleasing her but like I said before she wants to get it over with. I now have given up. I don't even bring sex up in conservation anymore because I know I will just get frustrated and angry. My life now consists of work and playing with my daughter. I don't even sleep in the same bed with my wife. I have thought about exgirlfriends and I know if I want sex it would happen. I don't want to throw away my marriage, I'm still in love with my wife.

i went through the same thing, she even went to the dr. several arguments and talks later it has improved some. you have to be creative, sometime i even threatened to leave, and even explained to her i would not live in a sexless marriage. to be honest i got by for a while because i'm bi and have afriend in the same situation. we have sex a few times a month, sometimes more. when we party some she finally lets her hair down, last time we even had anal play
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