I KNOW WHAT U MEAN N I WENT THROUGH DA SAME THING KIND OF BUT JUST 2 HEAR UR STORY DON'T U THINK TWICE IS ENOUGH....I THINK U SHOULD LET GO 4 A MIN SO SHE CAN FEEL WAT U FEEL N 2 IF IT WOULD HURT HER THAT U REALLY NOT MESSING WITH HER N SHE REALLY HURT ED U BUT IF DAT DONT WORK 2 ME I WOULD FEEL LIKE SHE DIDN'T CARE...HOPE THINGS WILL WORK OUT 4 U