Ok, so i am 14 years old; for about a year now, i have smoked weed and drank almost every weekend. Occasionally some ecstasy, or cocaine. I also smoke cigarettes (about a pack or less a week.) Now i know that sounds pretty bad, but on the posotive side, i have a strong relationship with my parents, friends, and school. I make As and Bs. Never make below a C on final grades. The people I party with are extremely responsible and we always keep eachother in order so we dont do something stupid like overdose, call attn to neighbors, etc. Recently, i got in trouble with the law and was told on at school that i had cigarettes. But i also had weed on me that the office happened to find and now i have court, etc. Ive now been sober a month sense then because of the incedint and still have the desire to continue on with my old routine but i am going to stay clean for the rest of the year for probation. Do i even have a problem with the drugs?? i dont feel addicted or dependant whatsoever but feel like i can party with them responsibly but after my parents found out they seemed so upset at my decision to smoke weed (they never found out about anything else because i havent been caught yet) but i wonder how upset theyd be if they knew about all of it? but still, i dont feel like theres a problem if ive already been sober a month? do i have one?