my boyfriend did the same thing on me to. its been three years ago since i had my beautiful daughter i've been with him for about 6 years every since he has cheated on me i fell that my hart is not whole anymore and i want my daughter to grow up and have her father right now we live sepratly from eachother but were still together i fell he is still doing it once a cheater always a cheater. i think im just going to break up with him and still live seprate from him and still let him see her i think its better like that anyway and that way im not catching a STD or something and move on. most women give there cheating husband or boyfriends a second chance and thats totaly up to you i cant tell you what to do but just think of all those STDs going around and think about your baby i did you can also live sepratly and still let your baby see him clam child support because no women should have to worrie about were there boyfriend or husband is at all times. well good luck