aahh im in same boat with all you guys..
im 18 and thought this dude really loved me we been going together since senior year but at same time was was seeing each other he had a girl on side and she was a freshman.. i would see her all over school and see them together than next thing i know he would come and kiss me i was like ugh what am i doing..now me and him are both i same college and they still stay in touch..he says he loves me and even gave me a ring..but i saw pics of them kissing other day..and it hurts..i keep confronting him and he keeps denying it and saying i have no trust in him so it cant work out..so its like he switching it up on me to make it seem like im at fault..but today i finally emailed the other girl and confronted her about the whole thing..im tired of playing the 3rd wheel..
all you girls can do better..i know you guys may love the dude so much but no one deserves to wonder if their spouse is out with the "other chick"..he is just leading you guys on..and if he cant drop the girl for you than he doesnt deserve you..