Desire to see my wife have sex with other men

For several years I have had the strong desire to see my wife have sex with other men. (we have been married for over 30 years) She sees it only as a fantasy, but for me it is real and a huge turn-on just to think about it. Am I disfunctional? Where does that desire come from and do I just have to live with this urge?

No you are quite normal as far as I am concerned wanting your wife to have sex with other men. My wife took to it, like a duck does to water and It really is exciting watching her and her lover have great sex. We all need a new partner to be more excited, especially if the wife is receiving a bigger cock and the other man can last longer too. Look up "cuckold" on the internet and see how many couples around the world are getting their satisfaction this way. Once a wife realises that her marriage is safe and she can have her cake and eat it too and you dont want another woman, then bingo, once you find her a man for great sex then there is no stopping her! Be carful what you wish for as it is much easier to get the wife to start having sex with other men, than to get them to stop!
Then when you have sex with your wife just after she has had sex with another man, you will be begging her to do it again and again, as the orgasms are so much more intense! Good luck to you.

I don’t watch my wife do it, but I let her go out weekends and she does it, coming home around 4.00am and ready for more. She really turns me on. She is so aroused from her encounter and begging for more while she is thinking of her night out. Trust is important. For this to work both ways you really have to love each other. For those who say a person doesn’t love his wife because he let her, they really don’t know what they are saying. Love is love and sex is to be enjoyed by what ever way a couple enjoy it. Each to there own, but for us we get great pleasure of it and have a great sex life together, even more so now.

I want to fuck you and see how your wife likes

I brought this up to my wife a while back, and she said she would think on it, but if so it would only be with one friend I had. I left for Iraq a little while later, and she did it while I was there. Had a threesome with him and his wife. She said she didn't do it to hurt me, but that she wanted to do it secretly without me to see if she was comfortable with it. I raised the BS flag on that but there is no right answer she could come up with that would make me feel any better.

My point is, and maybe someone could help me with, is that, I still want this, and she will still only do it witht his guy, who is really no longer my friend. She said him or none, for reasons of knowing him and he's clean. So, in order for me to have a fantasy fulfilled, I have to make friends again with one of the three people who made my life miserable while I was away from home for a year?

I am really very delighted that I am not only one who has a desire to see his wife enjoying sex with some one else.

I expressed my wish to my wife who is very sexy and very beautiful. I told her that I want you to have sex with some else and let me allow to see you while you enjoy the sex. First she refused and took it just a joke. But when I aked here again & again she agree. I asked her to have a group sex. She siad that she would feel uneasy to have sex with some one else during my presense. I asked her..ok, we will enjoy sex one by one. Now she is quite agreed but she says that she would have sex with any unknown.She says she would have sex but with any of my friends to whom she knows.

Now I gave a cell number of one my friend. He is really very Hot guy. In my fantasies, I saw him many times fucking my wife. Noiw it's the time to make my dream true. Believe me, I m loving my wife even more. Even I feel more sex when we talk about to have sex with some one else.

But there is a big question... from where this desire came? Am I a sick? Any here please advise me what to do? thanks
Tim

I can't imagine any man other than my husband spanking and/or fucking my pussy and/or ass, but he says that he'd love to see other men with me or joining us. His view point is that us women were meant to please two men at once.

I agree