I know exactly what yu guys are going through. Me and my bf been 2gethr since june 28 07. Before we made a year he went to serve the country in the airforce. I thought i was his one and only but wen i came 2 visit him on base. His emails proved me wrong (yes I'm nosey) . There's this one ugly broad he talks to. I asked himm bout her he tells me he only uses her for her money. She brought him a 400 dollar gun. And speaks 2 him from morning til night. Everydy. Of course i made sure she did know he had a wifey. But that didn't phase her. At times we argued. He would leave. Come bak 4 in the afternoon the next day. To find out he was wit her. I don't know what to do. Cuz i have a great deal of love for him. And don't wanna lose him to a ugly broad who can't get a man of her own