I'm 27 and been with my guy for 12 years. We are not married. We have no children. We are pretty much roommates. He likes to be in bars and clubs and I just want to be home. We have nothing in common other than we want to have kids with each other before we turn 30. He also cheated on me a year ago...with a dog. And then with a "video hoe" friend of his (although it wasn't sexual). You know what his reasons were? "Because I cheated on him first...and get this- WHEN I WAS 17.I don't know what to do anymore b/c he cheated only 1 year ago- we are adults, own a house and three cars- and he THINKS he can do better. Men MUST be stupid. I mean-the girl he cheated on me with had terrible hair and couldn't even match her clothes! Now, I'm a laid back type of girl who likes to wear sweats and t-shirts with my hair in a pony, but NEVER do I look hideous. I've gained some weight, but mostly in my boobs and butt-and what man would be ungrateful to that?! I know! AN IDIOT