What makes sex in a Christian context different is that We believe that sex is not just physical but also emotional and spiritual. It is a Total self giving not something temporary. That's why JPII explains in his Theology of The Body, That it proper only to marriage, considering the bond of the Holy Spirit take's its place when, marriage, a covenant with God , takes place.
I have such a desire for my finance, almost more than i can handle. its tempting but this desire need to be directed away from self and to the other person. its not what i desire but it is whats best for the other person.
after all the joy we will all experience in heaven is infinitely grater than any pleasure coming from sex. i hope you first concern is to get him to heaven.
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