am a virgin, have a fiance but not yet married, am a christian & have made up my mind not to have sex till marriage, recently, am having strange feelings, i gets wet every day,i feel like having sex,am tired of being a virgin. am 24yrs. what should i do?
you'd better not do that. just keep urself busy in other activities and dont think and hear about sex,evruthing is dependant on what u r thinkning bcoz thoughts moativate one to act. just think of positive things. better to have a good hubby. thanks
I had this boyfriend and i am absolutly still in love with him, and we are both going through alot of pain since he broke up with me. The reason he broke up with me is becase he's a christian and doesn't want sex until mariage, but i am not a virgin. I'm not making him have sex with me, I have even told him i'd reclaim my virginity and wait till marriage, and that still isnt enough for him. He feels very strong about the subject, so strong that he's throwing away a great relationship. Does anyone have any advice for me or for him about the matter? thank you.
What makes sex in a Christian context different is that We believe that sex is not just physical but also emotional and spiritual. It is a Total self giving not something temporary. That's why JPII explains in his Theology of The Body, That it proper only to marriage, considering the bond of the Holy Spirit take's its place when, marriage, a covenant with God , takes place.
I have such a desire for my finance, almost more than i can handle. its tempting but this desire need to be directed away from self and to the other person. its not what i desire but it is whats best for the other person.
after all the joy we will all experience in heaven is infinitely grater than any pleasure coming from sex. i hope you first concern is to get him to heaven.
only you will know when the time is right...Sex can ceartainly complicate things that much is ceartain...
Try to hold out but if you cant self manipulation is the only way to release sexual frustration...or you can engage in intercourse...which you stated earlier you did not want to do till after the wedding, so in order to fullfill your wishes and your desires....perhaps you need to explore your own body and FIX the issue at hand ( no pun intended).
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